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loving you always ♥
I'd still remember the day just before term ended, Bruce was going around looking for helpers to help in the upcoming 2009 Freshman Orientation camp. Some of my classmates were gonna help out but they were all under welfare dept in the club that includes me. So somewhere after a month or so Bruce asked if i wanted to be a Group Leader instead. i was really hesitant cause i felt i wasn't mentally prepared to lead a group yet, that excludes being physically strong. So about a week or so i told Bruce, yeah alright i'll be a gl instead. So LiHuang placed me as a gl instead. It was then on i started to eventually like the club and go for frequent meetings and stuff.
Eventually, us gls had to undergo certain trainings to get us prepared for the actual FO camp and i was glad i actually lived through it. But well through my journeys i've also kept stuff which i wasn't so pleased about all to myself so i thought i would share them on my blog tonight. So those of you who has read it and was mentioned in my blog, i hold no grudges on you though.
The prep camp was definitely the best chances to actually do my observations and stuff and of course nature still proved me right. I agree that all of us gls have worked together as a group to achieve the standard of what we are today. But when Ikhwan and Ferguson asked if you guys are together. I hear a hesitant yes. Is that really a yes or no? Are you all willing to die for one another? Me, even as a gl, i would say the answer is no. Why? fairly simple. You guys aren't really prepared to work with people you dislike. And as a GL, you must learn to be flexible and work with all sorts of people. if not, you fail as one. i know some of you don't fancy someone that much maybe cause that person is probably both mentally and physically weak or what i don't know. But if thats the reason all the more you guys should help her and not shun her off. And if its because of her character, thats
disappointing. Please prove me wrong (:
Secondly, what pokes me off is when there are
poeple who'd laugh over someone else's ghost stories. (not pinpointing ;] ) Whats worse is you did it behind his back. What kind of respect is this? How will you feel if someone does that to you? if you think it sucks and is totally lame. Please just keep it to yourself cause sharing it with others and laughing over it is just plain child like. once again if you guys felt insulted i have to apologize cause i'm a very direct person and i speak whats in my mind. Here's what i feel about working with you throughout these few months.
Theresa: There might be times your a wee bit nasty and sulky on your attitude but in terms of your personality i know your a good person. I'm sure you have worked really hard to be a GL.
Ethel: At times you might be down and i remembered the other time you were really sick and piss'd with us when were learning the dance steps cuz were like, yakking away. I envied your perseverance. other than that, i haven't really take notice on you much though.
Del: I actually thought you didn't like me cause i was partnering with V and you were jealous or something; But you were pretty much like the kid from the backyard kinda person which is cool! Well at least you could socialize with almost anyone.
Leo: he's actually a nice person, pretty lame at times, packed with jokes and stuff i have to admit i love listening to them, but there's something i dislike about you which is your bad temper. Its proabably that, i'm starting to talk less to you, i don't know. And if you dislike a person, it gets really obvious cause of your tone.
Vera: I found her the most approachable person you guys can ever find. Its probably cause of her nature and her attitude its definitely positive. Well i tried being an ass to her sometimes but i failed to make her pissed. she's a nice person i'd say.
Alvin Lim: This is tough. The first time i saw him, 2 words came up to my mind.
"Ah Beng" I thought he was a By-Himself-All-The-Time kinda person but he's actually very sociable and friendly which really surprised me. Anyway, you did pretty well as a GL.
Ferguson: I actually didn't like him in the beginning cause i thought he was an ass and planned all that sick PT for us but in the end of the day i appreciated it. He's sense on humor was towards the military style and i like the way he does things. its probably cause he's a practical person but he's definitely someone i would salute to.
Ikhwan: I respect him for one reason. The time to be serious and the time to fool around and play. Its a crucial thing for leaders to know whens the time for everything. He excels both academically and as a leader which shocks me to my very soul. Its rare to find such people but we have 1 in DMIT. which is him.